The Billy Graham Rule: Sexual Immorality
In Modesto, California, Billy Graham and his ministry team took a proactive step to safeguard their lives and ministry. Recognizing the dangers of sexual immorality, they established guidelines to avoid even the appearance of impropriety. Graham shared, “We all knew of evangelists who had fallen into immorality while separated from their families by travel. We pledged among ourselves to avoid any situation that would have even the appearance of compromise or suspicion. From that day on, I did not travel, meet, or eat alone with a woman other than my wife.”
This commitment echoed biblical mandates, such as Paul’s advice to Timothy: “Flee also youthful lusts” (2 Timothy 2:22, KJV) and “Abstain from all appearance of evil” (1 Thessalonians 5:22).
Practical Steps for Men
How can modern men follow this example? Here are specific guidelines:
Treat all women with respect and dignity. Jesus modeled this throughout His ministry.
Never flirt with a woman who is not your wife.
Avoid traveling alone with a woman who is not your wife.
Refrain from dining alone with a woman who is not your wife.
Do not discuss personal marriage issues with another woman.
If exceptions are unavoidable, ensure transparency by involving others or keeping them informed.
Why It Matters
As men, we must go the extra mile to protect our hearts, marriages, and testimonies. By living with intentionality and accountability, we honor God and safeguard the relationships entrusted to us.
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